Tuesday, August 4, 2015

Go to the Anne Frank House

Check.

And I don't know if I have words to express how absolutely perfect it was.

(I don't have my journal with me, so this may not go in order of actually happening--room by room--but I want to write about it anyway.)

I was absolutely nervous with excitement as we waiting outside. The weather was nice and cool, the air was crisp, I stood there taking it all in. And as I did, I heard a bell tower begin to toll.
Then I realized where I was--right outside the Anne Frank House. If I looked to my right, I could see the attic window from the street we were on.
These were Anne's bells.

People were around me, but I don't remember much of them, except for my new friends from Missouri who seemed to also understand what these next few moments truly meant.
We get closer to the entry doors, and I'm nearly shaking.
This is real. This is happening.

You can't take pictures inside, but in the little entry room where you get the tickets, I snuck a picture. Not of the inside, but of the street across the canal through the window.


From there, we entered the Anne Frank House establishment. In years since opening the house for the public, they have bought out the houses at the end of the street to also use. (there's a story with this as to why and how, but I don't want to butcher it in a paraphrase. Look it up if you'd like, it's very interesting.)
We walk through the door way to the left and we see the big portraits of Anne, with quotes from her diary. 
This room I've seen pictures of.
This room I've day dreamed about seeing, wondering where it was in relation to the house as a whole. 
Here I was, in it.
(This I believe was in what was the back of the warehouse. I may be wrong.)

We continued through, and we were given a layout of the house and where we were. When we walked into the bottom floor that was the warehouse, I lost my breath. I honestly can't remember breathing from this point on. The first thing I noticed walking in was the floor. It was a sort of cobble stone, but not in squares like I'm used to seeing. It was in rectangles, and in a sort of pattern that wasn't a pattern. Next I noticed the rafters on the ceiling. There were quotes and things all over the walls, beginning the tale I've felt in my soul since I can remember. As we walked towards the first flight of stairs, I saw the front doors, the ones I knew from pictures on the outside. I got out of line and went up and touched them. 
We saw a small scale model of the annex, with mini furniture where it used to be. Normal things, with nothing special about them when originally placed. Secrets and hopeful safety, never intended to be seen and viewed and remembered by thousands. Nothing special becoming specific details in memory.

We walked up the stairs and into the offices. The walls and doors just as I had seen in pictures and virtual tours, the words still on the outside of the door. They had Meip's typewriter and various documents laid out in cases. They had photo albums. 
Pictures. 
Ones I had seen in small, recreated print. The originals now before me. Small, black and white, just like similar prints I have seen in antique stores or frames in my Grandma's house. Real memories of happy times before the world was flipped upside down.
Which actually happened.
This blows me away.
They also had a drawing of Anne's from when she went to the Montessori school. That was one thing that seemed to strike many of us. We know her words, but to see her art, something she created, in colors, it leaves you speechless.

We continue through and eventually get to the landing in front of the movable bookcase. 
My heart is beating like I'm meeting a hero. 
My eyes are filled with tears. I hardly remember moving. I just stared, for a long time.
People moved around me.
The side of the bookcase that is the exposed side was covered in a protective plastic, but the front of it wasn't. I was surprised by this. 
And there weren't books in the bookshelf, it was files in file folders. 
And you could see what was written on them, logs and charts. You could read them if you knew the language. You could see the age and discoloration and dates. 
You could touch them.
Most didn't realize this, or think of it. But there was this older lady just as enamored with this as I was. 
There we were, vast age gap, both deeply taken by the life of this young girl, her family, and unlikely roommates. So often people think of Anne Frank and her story as one geared solely towards young girls, ones in similar age to what she was when she wrote and subsequently died. They don't think of how Anne Frank, Martin Luther King, Jr., and Barbara Walters were all born the same year. She was just four years older than my own grandma. Age doesn't dictate how someone can relate to a story, or who your own story can relate to. 

I used to be afraid that once I got too old I would stop being relevant. Which is kind of funny, considering most people think that you have to be older to be relevant. I was afraid that by getting older I would lose my influence. That once you were older, you were more easily forgotten. That somehow things have more impact when they come from kids. After all, how can you be called an old soul and it mean something if your soul actually resides in a body that is old? But each year, I get older, and each year I realize that the age doesn't matter, it's the life that's lived in however many years you have. 
So these files with these dates from the era that so deeply resonates with my old-soul-ed-heart were exposed in these file folders in the very bookcase that hid this girl whose story shakes me to my core and hits that deep spot inside me that I struggle to explain as I'm standing in the very building she hid and lived in for two years and you could touch them.
So I touched them.
I ran my fingers across them. 
The paper was thick. Some on letterhead, some hand written in perfect penmanship, never expected to be anything more than just a file, something routine and unimportant in the grand scheme of things. Yet here it was, piercing the heart of this 26-year-old old-soul from Texas.
Obviously, these have probably been moved around since the 40s; things changed and switched up. But still.
The map was also exposed, so I reached up and touched the edge as I walked through to the stairs.
I had touched the door handle on the door as we walked in, the same door I've seen in pictures. Some of the wallpaper obviously replaced, but replicated to resemble that which was there 71 years ago.

Directly behind the bookcase door and to the left is a tiny little hallway with a door that lead to the Frank's and Edith's room.
It's small. Hard to believe they fit as much in here as they did, even giving account to the fact the furniture is smaller than we're used to.
On the walls, they have some of Edith's prayer books and some of Margot's Latin courses. Different things that showed life trying to continue as normal. I walked around the room, imagining and taking it all in, marveling that they were so close to the streets where people's normal lives continued as theirs were full of such struggle. I got to the doorway and almost forgot what I had been looking forward to seeing there--the card Otto marked the advancement of the allies and the height chart of the girls. 
I was shaken out of my daydream daze when I heard someone say, "Wow, they were tall."
And they were.
At the time of Anne's last measurement, she was about 5'6". I don't know why I expected her to be shorter, but she certainly wasn't. For some reason, this made me feel good. I got out my journal and tried to sketch roughly what their height measurements looked like. Once again, I'm holding up the line.
I went into Anne's room and wrote an entry in my own journal while there. Because of this, my head was down for most of the walk about the room, but since I couldn't take pictures, I feel as though this was important to remember being there. I remember hearing the floors squeak, and thinking of how difficult it must have been to stay quiet during the day. The pictures she pasted on the walls are there, behind a protective plastic casing. The room is small. I'm sure it would feel a little bigger with the furniture they had in there, but still it's hardly big enough for what they had in there.

The teal colored door and window leading to the washroom are there. I touch them. We walk through the door and see the toilet there, marked off, just as it was left. This struck me since it's not something in the virtual tours I've seen. The sink and mirror are also there. When I caught myself in the mirror, my heart lept. This very mirror Anne looked into every day. Where she did some deep thinking. And here, my face is reflected, just as hers was, the only thing separating us is a couple decades. 

From there we went back through to the original hallway after the bookcase. We took the stairs up to the next landing, which was the Van Pels' room, as well as what they used as a kitchen. The stairs were narrow and very steep. I had heard this, but was very surprised by it.
The room was larger, but small when compared to what all it was used for. No wonder Mrs. Van Pels made such a fuss when she was used to such different conditions. 
At this point, I had caught up with our Tour Director. We walked around, looking at the walls and the different things they had displayed throughout. There was an old stove or something similar to it with a little write out explaining their dietary limitations while hiding. I had to explain to our Tour Director what Kale was, since she had never heard the word before. She was just as taken as I was. 
The granite countertop was there, with the sink in the far side. I ran my hand along it, feeling the grooves. I believe it was going through this doorway that I found a piece of wallpaper that looked original. I touched it, letting my hand linger a little longer.

We go into the next room which is where Peter stayed. A landing for the stairs that go up to the attic, hardly big enough to fit a bed into. They had the Attic marked off, but had a mirror angled so you could see more of the details inside. I stared for a long while again, and was holding up the line. I moved to the side and looked up and past where the mirror was to the true wall and the side of a window I could see. As my mind swam in the memories of her diary entries, I was shaken back to the reality of where I was.
The bells.
The very bells Anne wrote about began to toll as I stared into the place where Anne found refuge most during her time there. The bells you would be able to see out the window I could see a part of if I were up in the actual attic. The bells I heard when I was standing on the street, looking to the right at the attic window.
I cried.
But not a sob, boo-hoo cry. More of a gentle weep. The timing couldn't have been planned better if this was a movie script. But it wasn't; this was real life.

From here we went into what I believe is an added part of the museum. We saw and heard and read different things whether it be eyewitness accounts or their cards from when they were captured to different pictures and video footage. 
We saw a video testimony from one of Anne's friends who was separated from her by a wall. She had Red Cross aid coming in sporadically and was able to throw Anne a bit of it over the wall. The last time she heard from Anne over this wall, Anne was distraught since her sister had died. The friend mentioned how she wonders if Anne would have survived if she knew her Dad were still alive. She lost hope, and shortly after died, just a month shy of liberation. How different the story would be had she lived. 

We continued through, and there was Anne's original diary in a case. I choked up again, and stared, taking it all in as much as I could. Here it was, right in front of me. You could see where she had taped in things onto pages and where parts of the diary were wearing. They had other writings by Anne in other cases throughout the room. What struck me was when I found myself understanding a sentence I was reading in Dutch. It wasn't translate, it was real. And it made the story that much more real to me, that much closer. I saw her brain process and her intentions. I felt like I was with a friend, but more than a friend, because a friend can betray you. This is something different, something better.

I went down from there and signed the guestbook, then saw a section that went more into the life of Mr. Pfeffer. It had a type written letter from Otto, reaching out to Mr. Pfeffer's son, written in English. You could hear Otto's heart coming through the words. It was incredible to read.

I, of course, bought a diary in the gift shop, as well as many post cards and a book detailing the story. 
I missed the walking tour we had scheduled, but was okay with it. It was raining by the time I finished. I went to the front door to get a picture with the address and "Anne Frank Huis" plaques by the doors I had touched from the inside. 







Later in our trip, we were also able to find the bench from The Fault in Our Stars and 400 Singel, which was a house Anne had lived in prior to hiding. (There was another one we didn't have time to go find, but that's okay.) There's a picture of her on the very stoop we saw that I wished I would have brought to recreate. Regardless, it was neat to see it.



I had somehow missed the Anne Frank statue outside by the church and was pretty bummed about it. But on the last night, my new friend Ashley and I walked to find a post box to mail my post cards in and in doing so, broke away from the rest of the group (who were going out to party and we weren't really feelin' it.) In navigating back to a tram station we knew, I saw the bell tower and recognized it, following it knowing there was a tram station near there. That's when I realized we were by the house, and that meant by the statue. I asked Ashley if she would mind, and she said not at all, that she had wanted to see it as well.

So we went over, at 11pm, streets empty save for the street sweepers, and we took pictures. We took a second to soak in the night around us, realizing the full day aspect of what life was like around them when they were hiding, as well as now knowing a bit of what it was like inside. 







As we waited for the tram, we talked about how difficult it must have been to not be allowed on the tram, simply because you were a Jew. How awkward it must have felt, and all for no real reason.
The tram arrived, and just as it did, the bells began to toll again in a serendipitous way. Amsterdam telling us goodbye and that she was happy to know us. 

I have a special place in my heart for bell towers. 

How incredible is it that one simple, normal life can make such a vast difference in the hearts of so many people?
This is a life well lived.






Tuesday, May 5, 2015

#'s 1, 28, 35, & 40

I decided to take a gander at my original list yesterday, specifically in search for one I thought might be on there since it has found it's way on to my lists since I was a kid. It was there in different variations, and during my search I also found a few more I can mark of.
This is pretty cool.

I wish I would think to write down more extensions as I dream them up, but that's okay. I know they're there and I get the satisfaction of fulfilling them. Also, I journal about them.

Here are a few that can be checked off (or almost)

1.) Start a blog (a legit one)
Now, depending on your definition of "legit" this can be marked of the list.
I think what I intended was one that I kept up with. Not just a fly-by-night idea that I start and fizzles out.
I am proud to say that my ballet blog I began in 2012 is still going strong. It was there that I documented the excitement of getting to go to the So You Think You Can Dance tour and subsequently got to meet almost all of the dancers, resulting is a wonderful experience I cherish. (Thanks Natalia and her Mom!)
It isn't well read, but it's read. And I've noticed recently that there have been consistently more page views than usual.
I would like for it to get bigger, but part of me likes for it to remain small, simply because it helps me stay true to myself when I feel like I'm writing without opinions in my ear.
But the people who have found it, I am okay with. :)

28.) Show true kindness--to everyone
And 
35.) Change the world
These two are along the lines of the one I was looking for.
I remember having bucket lists as a kid, and at the end there would always be something in the way of "make a difference in someone's life."
This has been something I've worked towards my whole life. It was always important to me to do everything I could to make people feel loved. Now, I am fully aware that I am in no way perfect and I have inadvertently hurt people along the way. But I made an effort to make it right as soon as I was made aware. These people have been forgiving, for which I am extremely grateful, and I've used those experiences to learn along the way. Some of the lessons have been hard, but I wouldn't be who I am without them. I feel that through knowing deep pain, I can in turn know better how to comfort. My main thought process in how I treat people is to try and think about what I wish I had when I was in their situation. Especially dancing with younger people. What do I wish I had when I was their age? I try to show kindness, and encourage them to do their best. Because I remember how much it meant to hear those things from people older than me, people I looked up to. I may not think I'm the best dancer, but they may think I'm the greatest they've ever seen. And instead of tell them it's not true, I'll use their viewpoint to encourage them, and hope they'll be inspired to surpass me. People will only ever be as great as they're told they are. It's a rare thing for them to have the confidence in themselves to pursue greatness without it coming from some kind of outside force, and usually when they do, they've wasted precious time. (these people are incredible, and in turn become great motivators.)
This past weekend, we had a performance of Wizard of Oz in Beeville.
A few people were complaining because the stage was smaller and being involved was much more taxing than we're used to, but the whole thought of it to me was wonderful. I was that kid growing up that never had seen a ballet (I haven't seen a real one yet, besides the company I'm now a part of. But we can mark that new bucket list entry off in June!) like many of these kids that were able to come, and to get to be part of that for them was thrilling.
Plus it was wonderful to get to be all together in the different environment. And then it all tipped in my favor that I was able to dance the role I was typically a cover for, and everyone--literally everyone--was so beyond thrilled for me. I've never felt such an emotion of deep gratitude, love, and support in my entire life. Ever. I'm still blown away by it. The (positive) repercussions are still resounding.
But the part that really blew me away was the part I never saw coming.
The part where Mrs. Julie gave out awards to seven dancers, and my name was one of them called, and as soon as it left her lips, the entire place exploded with cheers and applause and that's never happened in my entire life. I know I'm loved, but I've never before been shown it like I was shown on Saturday. It was simple, yet it was life changing.
(I got the "Impact Award" for cultivating an encouraging environment and being an inspiration.)
Impact means "to have an impact or effect on; influence; alter"
To be seen by my directors as being the person deserving of this honor was enough to bring me to tears. To look out and see so many smiling, supportive faces and have many of those people come up to me afterwards congratulating me and thanking me, I can't explain how good that makes me feel. I even had parents thank me for what I am for their kids. Days later and people are still telling me such wonderful things that I never could have imagined.
To me, to be on the receiving end, it feels like all of the decisions I've made my entire life are coming together and proving worth it. The times I got walked all over, the times I got hurt, the times that no one knew, the times I felt like dirt and the people I had encouraged were only upset I couldn't help them, the times I had to pick myself up by myself--they've all come back a million-fold, and I've found myself some pretty solid and incredible friendships in the process. I'm not afraid of walking life alone, because these people have proven to me that I never have to. They're there for me. I can never express how that makes me feel.
Live a good life. Do good simple in the name of doing good. Don't do it for titles or recognition. It matters. You matter. And you're making a difference in this world, even if you don't see the results yet.
"Keep changing the world."

40.) Go out of the country
This one is happening in July.
On a whim, my best friend Kristin and I decided to go on a Europe tour to Amsterdam, Paris, and London. This is also fulfilling the unspoken dream of seeing the Anne Frank House. (I really wanted to put that on my list, but I was afraid it would never happen. Fear is stupid. Put it on the list, dang it!) It's been ten years since I've been to Europe, and I'm thrilled to get to go this time.
I'm sure there will be pictures upon my return :)

So, added on

  • Anne Frank House
  • See a professional ballet
  • Meet a Holocaust survivor
  • uh. I thought there was another. oh well.